What don’t husbands understand about the wives wanting to be included in the decision process? No my husband didn’t make a decision without me in this particular instance that caused me to share my thoughts here. Perhaps I should be thankful alone for that…however, when you (well speaking for myself) when I hear the word “my” about something that should be “our” the “spidey” senses definitely go up. Uh….hello! Its not “my” its “our” and when I inform you that it was said you don’t have to debate it just do a little ‘marriage PR’ and concede and say something more soothing to the ear like, “I don’t think I said “my” but if I did it wasn’t personal.” A little effort goes a long way.